Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Family!

I love my family!!!! Family has become so very important in my life. Let me rephrase that, my family has always been an important part of my life; however, especially over the past 4 years, my family has been my rock and motivation to keep pushing forward. Life has not handed me the easiest cards to play with, but God always provides you with the people to see you through. Those that will pray for you, lift you up, encourage you, tell you when you are wrong, tell you the truth, be there when you need a hand, anything! My family is truly the definition of all that and much more!

I am blessed to be married to a man that views family as important as I do and this weekend we are traveling to Binghamton, NY to visit with his family for their annual family reunion camp out - I am very excited about it!

Last weekend we were able to spend some time in Richmond with my family (minus Kirsten, my eldest sister and her husband Keith) :( They were definitely missed. Dad, my brother Mike, Brian, and my brother-in-law Shaun went to the Golf course for a leisurely game of golf, while us girls & Pierce stayed home and spent some time talking and catching up. I can't wait to see them again!!! I forgot my camera, go figure! But here are some recent pictures of the gang! :)
















The boys - if they aren't playing golf, they are looking at golf pictures. :)
Seen here, Mike, Pierce, Dad, Shaun, & Brian

Kirst & Kate (Mom & Shaun in background)
My Brother-in-law, Keith :)Mom w/ Pierce :)

Praying for Change

Last Wednesday was a very important day in the lives of Brain Tumor patients (whether they know it or not). Let's see....where do I begin? About 3 years ago, Daniel (my late husband) and I met a wonderful man named Jack Cullather. Jack heard our story of battling the insurance company for a "wonderful" 11 months (at least) in order to get Daniel down to be seen by the doctors at Duke.

This news prompted Jack to contact some delegates that he had connections with and they proposed a bill that would mandate Insurance companies to allow BT patients to go to comprehensive care centers within 300 miles of their homes. This would mean that BT patients living in Richmond would be allowed to go to either John's Hopkins or Duke University to get second opinions - Both of which are comprehensive care centers (especially good centers for BT research).

Okay, so that is the short version of how the bill came about. Well, last Wednesday was the hearing at the General Assembly in front of the Insurance Commission to try and get the bill passed. I must admit, it is extremly frustrating to go there for these hearings (this is the 2nd one I have been to). I was asked to testify and I did, to the best of my ability, hoping that somehow my story can make a difference. Please pray for this bill and that as the Lord sees fit, it will be passed and allow so many patients to have a chance that right now they currently don't have. If you live in Richmond (or any other place where there is no comprehensive care center), it should be your right to get the best care possible. Some argue that MCV or UVA have the expertise necessary, but those people are sadly mistaken. There is NO Neuro-Oncologist in the state of VA!

When you are told you have a BT, you are given a life span (usually at most) of 6 months. Duke allowed me to hold on to Daniel for an additional 10 months with their treatments. A bunch of healthy people sitting behind desks getting paid way too much, should not be the deciding factor of whether or not you should have a good chance at survival. It is frustrating, I am passionate about it, and we will continue fighting, especially for those that are told they have no fighting chance!

Here is an excerpt of my testimony.....

"My late husband and I have had many friends that have been diagnosed with brain tumors, many of which have lost their battles, only to leave their families or spouses with large amounts of medical debt. They chose to get the best care, where their insurances companies otherwise let them down. I encourage you today, when condisering to pass this bill, look at the bigger picture. I realize that as companies you are striving to create capital gain and run a business, but that is all my late husband was trying to do. Be a normal 25 year old man, run a business, be a loving husband, son, brother, and uncle. In one instant, that all changed. I ask you today to reevaluate your goals as insurance companies, are you out to protect your members or to merely gain financial security? I urge you to pass this bill, to give these patients, YOUR patients, a better chance at survival!"

The voting for this bill has not taken place yet, but when it does, I will let you all know the (positive) outcome! :)

Thanks for the prayers!

Monday, July 23, 2007

New Name





















IT IS OFFICIAL!!! I went to the DMV & the SSA last week and did the name change thing! I am so excited to officially be Mrs. Karen Anne Miller!!! We also now have an official copy of our Marriage Certificate. :) Life is good....Thank you Lord!

New Beginnings!

I have been meaning to write this post for a little while now, but have not had the time to do so. After getting back from the honeymoon, I was so busy trying to get back into the swing of school work and all that stuff, I have been slacking on the blog. Sorry!

So, we are happy about NEW BEGINNINGS!!! Not only is our marriage a brand new beginning of what the Lord has in store for us, but also, Brian has a new beginning with his career path. Upon our return from Punta Cana, Brian found out that is boss of 3 years, to put it nicely, is not a man of integrity or honesty. Thankfully though, Brian was working part time for a man that is definitely an honest, loving, Christian man! Brian was offered a full time position by this guy, his name is Jason, and Brian jumped all over it.

Since July 14th Brian has been working for a company called Golf, Etc. which is based out of Suffolk, VA. The job is great for him. Brian is excelling, having leadership opportunities, and in an extremely (more) positive environment. We are so blessed.



Brian's new boss, Jason, and his wife Kendra have also invited us to their church, for those that don't know, we are still "church shopping" here in Chesapeake (it is NOT fun). The past two Sundays, we have attended church with Brian's new boss and his family. This Sunday, Kendra told me that Brian was a total and complete answer to prayer. She said they had actually tried to hire one guy and they "lost" him - he stopped calling, emailing, never showed up again, nothing. Then Brian called Jason the Monday after our return from DR and told Jason what was up with his current job situation. They had been praying for Brian and Brian and I had been praying for a new job - we just didn't know God had all intentions for us to be each others answers! God is awesomely amazing!!!

So, here is to new beginnings, new jobs, new friends, new churches, new marriages, and most importantly, new lives being changed!!!!

Friday, July 13, 2007

Blessings

Brian and I have been unbelievably blessed by friends and family. We were showered with wedding blessings and wanted to share some of those blessings with you. You all are invited to come and enjoy our new things any time you want. :) We would love to have lots of visitors!!!


Our new bedding and underneath we are enjoying our new 800 thread count sheets - It is like sleeping on silk!

Our new TIVO! LOVE IT!!! (and that is our new digital picture frame on top - Thanks Aunt Sue!) :)


Our new 42" Plasma TV - and yes, that is Brian and I on the screen - with the Tivo, we can send pictures from our laptops to the TV - totally cool!

Another picture of the TV - displaying a gorgeous picture from our honeymoon resort - the screen is so big, sometimes it feels like we are still looking out our honeymoon suite window! :)


Our new Grill - thanks Bob & Mom Miller!!! :) - Brian is still working on putting it together!

Thursday, July 12, 2007

Our Honeymoon Video Slideshow - Enjoy!!!

View this montage created at One True Media
Our Honeymoon

More Pictures...

I promised you guys more pictures, so here are a few more from our wonderful wedding day!


The Beautiful girls leaving for the church (and the wedding flag blowing in the breeze at the Stank house)

Natural Air Conditioning - Courtesy of Katie & Sissy :)


Brian with his Daddy before the ceremony
Brian with his brother, Mark, before the ceremony
Brian (with our Pastor, Daniel) waiting for Karen to walk down the aisle.


Our First Kiss as Husband and Wife!!!!!!!!!!


Mr & Mrs Brian Jeffery Miller :)


At dinner :) The best night of our lives. (so far) :)

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Welcome Home to us!

What a blessing it is to be married to some who has a positive mental attitude about life! There is definitely a battle going on and we are so thankful that God always prevails! So many things "attacked" us as soon as we got off the plane on Sunday night. We appreciate all those that will lift us up in prayer.

Unfortunately, Karen developed some health issues while in Punta Cana, all of which are healing well with prayer and wonderful medicines. We are blessed to live in the USA!!! Karen came in contact with something poisonous while out of the country and developed a severe rash. Also, she definitely came in contact with Brian a few times :) (hehehe) and developed "honeymoon-itis". Not fun! I am sure the ladies can relate to that. However, God is awesome and always taking care of us.

When we got home we also had a lovely "welcome home" present waiting for us. I am not talking about Jenny's wonderful chalk exclamations on our parking spaces or the streamers on the door - those were definitely fun to come home to. I am referring to a 90 degree condo! Our AC unit stopped working while we were gone.

Thankfully Brian and our neighbor that lives downstairs were able to fix it and get us back up and running on Tuesday. Monday was a very unpleasant day though. We actually took a picture of our indoor/outdoor thermometer so you all could "feel" our pain. At 6:20 pm on Monday night it was 101.3 degrees outside and 99.9 degrees inside. :) Even our kitties were walking around with their tongues hanging out of their mouths, panting like dogs. Poor babies!


I must say, we do love being married and now we are aware of how much we appreciate and love Air Conditioning!!!

Hope all of you are enjoying cool homes right now as well! Love to all!

Honeymoon in Paradise

On July 8th we returned from our honeymoon. Punta Cana, Dominican Republic is one of the most beautiful places we have ever been. Brian and I relaxed and enjoyed one another very much. It was so very romantic. Some of the things we did included, scuba diving (Karen's first time - it was one of the best life experiences I have ever had), snorkeling and swimming with sharks and sting rays, horseback riding on the beach, 11pm couples massage ocean side, watched fireworks on July 4th, romantic champagne dinner for two, breakfast in bed our last morning there, enjoyed lots of wonderful shows and performances, and relaxed in the pool every chance we got!!! If any one is ever planning a vacation, we highly recommend The Excellence, Punta Cana! Here are some pictures of our adventure.....
Us before dinner on Thursday night
Us after breakfast on Friday morning.


Brian chillin' in the pool.

Us enjoying the sax player on the beach, our last night there.

Waiting to be seated for dinner on Tuesday night.


Laying in "bed" poolside - yep, they have beds next to the pools and on the beach - Awesome!!!
(check out my busted up knee - what a klutz I am!!!)

Romantic Champagne Dinner for two the last night we were there - They treated us so special - It was awesome!The view from our room - Amazing!!!
The view of the ocean from our room!

We Got Hitched!!!!

June 30th finally came, and went....It was a beautiful, wonderful day. We are so blessed to have so many friends and family there to support us and love us. Thank you to everyone who made our wedding day so special. We love each of you. Everything was absolutely perfect! Here are a few pictures of our wonderful day. Hope everyone is doing well.

Me & my cousins, Rachel and Sissy at the Bridesmaids Luncheon, the day before the wedding.
Me with my two sisters, Katie and Kirsten, and my friend Kandi - Taking pictures before the ceremony.
My mom and dad before the wedding


Me with my little ring bearer - Peyton


Me and my nephew - Pierce - He was soooo cute in his little tuxedo!

More pictures to come.....
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